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Mary Lou, a "runaround", a "runaway"...
Created on 2006-05-08 13:21:47 (#10194860), last updated 2009-11-27
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Basic Info| Name: | mary_lou39 |
|---|---|
| Birthdate: | 1988-08-09 |
| Location: | Ukraine |
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for.mary.lou@gmail.com Bio...If I do not want what you want, please try not to tell me that my want is wrong.
Or if I believe other than you, at least pause before you correct my view.
Or if my emotion is less than yours, or more, given the same circumstances, try not to ask me to feel more strongly or weakly.
Or yet if I act, or fail to act, in the manner of your design for action, let me be.
I do not, for the moment at least, ask you to understand me. That will come only when you are willing to give up changing me into a copy of you.
I may be your spouse, your parent, your offspring, your friend, or your colleague. If you will allow me any of my own wants, or emotions, or beliefs, or actions, then you open yourself, so that some day these ways of mine might not seem so wrong, and might finally appear to you as right -- for me. To put up with me is the first step to understanding me. Not that you embrace my ways as right for you, but that you are no longer irritated or disappointed with me for my seeming waywardness. And in understanding me you might come to prize my differences from you, and, far from seeking to change me, preserve and even nurture those differences...
Or if I believe other than you, at least pause before you correct my view.
Or if my emotion is less than yours, or more, given the same circumstances, try not to ask me to feel more strongly or weakly.
Or yet if I act, or fail to act, in the manner of your design for action, let me be.
I do not, for the moment at least, ask you to understand me. That will come only when you are willing to give up changing me into a copy of you.
I may be your spouse, your parent, your offspring, your friend, or your colleague. If you will allow me any of my own wants, or emotions, or beliefs, or actions, then you open yourself, so that some day these ways of mine might not seem so wrong, and might finally appear to you as right -- for me. To put up with me is the first step to understanding me. Not that you embrace my ways as right for you, but that you are no longer irritated or disappointed with me for my seeming waywardness. And in understanding me you might come to prize my differences from you, and, far from seeking to change me, preserve and even nurture those differences...
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alsatians, arnold schwarzenegger, bikes, blues, bob dylan, bonnie raitt, boogie, chubby checker, chuck berry, clint eastwood, coffee, country, cowboy style, creedence clearwater revival, dolly parton, erich maria, everly brothers, george thorogood, germany, guitar, hank williams iii, harp, hitchhiking, horses, ice cream, irish pubs, james hadley chase, jeeps, jerry lee lewis, john fogerty, john travolta, johnny cash, journalism, mulled wine, paraguay tea, rock'n'roll, rockabilly, roller skating, rory gallagher, roxette, scorpions, slade, social distortion, st. petersburg, stephen king, stevie ray vaughan, stray cats, sunrises, sunsets, suzi quatro, table tennis, the beatles, the usa, tom hanks, trucks
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